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      <image:title>Blog - The Complicated Truth About Early Recovery and Parenting, - “It’s like a parent being gone for two years of your life,”</image:title>
      <image:caption>-an unexpected comment said to me by my son</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Complicated Truth About Early Recovery and Parenting, - A truth about recovery that took me years to understand:</image:title>
      <image:caption>Sobriety saves your life. Listening saves your relationships.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Quick Brain-Based Tips for Parents of Teens - The most powerful parenting moment is often the one where you return and say, “Let’s try again.”</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Brain-Based Tips for Parents from My ACSW Presentation on the Adolescent Brain</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>That doesn’t make you ungrateful - it makes you human.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Part II - Zaza: Protecting Families - Keep naloxone (Narcan) on hand and learn the overdose signs.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - When the Holidays Stir Up Old Wounds: - Every time you respond differently, you rewrite your story</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Check out a variety of meetings before deciding; no two are exactly alike. Each has its own vibe and atmosphere. AA also offers specialty meetings tailored to specific communities, including young people, LGBTQ+ individuals, women only, men only, Spanish-speaking, military, and more.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>A closing message about putting this information into practice</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Anger and Conflict Management for Children - Some Helpful Phrases to Use When Active Listening</image:title>
      <image:caption>-Help me understand your perspective. -Thank you for being honest. -I agree with you on this point. -How can I support you? -You might be right. I have to think about that.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Over the years, this initiative has gained notable traction worldwide, inspiring many to take a break from alcohol and focus on their well-being.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>I couldn't quite wrap my head around how much I was struggling without booze in that first month — and It really scared me. I decided, as a sort of punishment to myself, that I would do February as well as January. -Tom Holand</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Setting healthy boundaries and being able to say "no" or "no thank you" are my top tips. Here are some more tips that I have gathered from my friends and peers.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Maintain self-care and Self-compassion throughout the holiday season</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Grief and Me - I am struggling with my own grief today, and as it is natural for me to journal out my thoughts, I decided to turn these emotions and feelings into a blog article in hopes that it will benefit someone else. This blog is not meant to be educational; it simply reflects my personal experience.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>I must say that when transferring words from my journal to my blog, this entry has evolved since I first put them to paper. Initially, my emotions were raw—angry and hurt. However, as I edited the blog entry, the perspective and understanding I gained softened my viewpoint and deepened my comprehension of the situation. I also became much more self-analytical than I was when I first wrote my thoughts down.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Equipping Kids with Coping Skills: Tools for Life's Challenges - Benefits to the entire family Teaching your children new coping skills can benefit the entire family, as our emotions are often interconnected. When our kids are happy and emotionally regulated, we, as parents, tend to feel more relaxed. Conversely, when parents are agitated, struggling, angry, or frustrated—regardless of how well we try to mask our feelings or shield our children from our challenges—they can still sense this and will respond to the overall emotional climate in the home.g singled out.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Parent Shaming - The distinction between shame and guilt is that guilt arises from feeling bad about something you did, while shame arises from feeling bad about who you are.</image:title>
      <image:caption>-Emily Dickinson, LPC</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Your self-worth does not depend on beauty, productivity, or materialistic belongings. You deserve to be treated well. Your feelings are valid, valuable, and important. It is good to ask for help. You can use your strengths to meet challenges and not necessarily have to win them each time. There is value in losing, failing, and making mistakes</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Discussing Recovery With Adult Children - This conversation also offers the oportunity for connection and could ultimately bring you closer together than ever.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Keep in mind, that having this conversation could bring you closer than you could have ever imagined.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Do you have fears about going to treatment? This entry is meant to answer a few questions based on my personal, not professional, experience.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Taking the Step: Why I Chose Inpatient Treatment for My Addiction - Surrender</image:title>
      <image:caption>The most important lesson that I gained from AA was that I had an “illness” that I could not cure on my own.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Giving up Alcohol? How to Tell Family and Friends You are Not Drinking. - What is your why?</image:title>
      <image:caption>Why am I making this decision? What is my intention in sharing this news? What do I hope to gain in return? What is my current level of confidence in my alcohol-free lifestyle?</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Giving up Alcohol? How to Tell Family and Friends You are Not Drinking. - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Giving up Alcohol? How to Tell Family and Friends You are Not Drinking. - Your true friends will show up for you (eventually).</image:title>
      <image:caption>It might take some patience or periods of adjustment, but the friends who care about you won’t judge you.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Hard times, when held with open hands and a tender heart, can prepare us for the future.” – Cindee Snider Re</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Building Self Esteem - - This begins with two important steps: 1. Changing our behaviors and self-talk. 2. Exploring and challenging the primary sources of our poor self-esteem. (Childhood wounds, CPTSD, etc.)</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Rebuilding Trust - The Problem with Promises - Do you wonder why your friends and family continue to mistrust you, question your sobriety, or run checks on you -despite having some considerable time in recovery and your promises to stay sober?</image:title>
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      <image:caption>A couple of days have passed, and I am physically rested, better nourished, and almost caught up with my chores, emails, etc. My emotions are not as raw as they were the other day. I have shared my hiking experience with friends who kept me accountable and stopped me from belittling my efforts and trip this year.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Although I am not well rested today, I have had some more time to think about my hike, what went well, and what I will change or plan for next year. But let’s still reflect on how the SNAP tool can help me understand now, “how and where” this pattern of thinking came from… the lingering childhood messages from my youth</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Congratulations! I am excited for you. The mere fact that you are reading this page on my blog is a great first step. Motivation and a desire to change are crucial elements to success in abstaining from addictive substances and behaviors. I welcome and celebrate you!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The Importance of Sleep to Your Sobriety, Physical and Mental Health - I love to sleep, dream, and even snuggle in bed with my dog when she is frightened of a storm. I also love the mornings when I wake up naturally and there is no rush to get out of bed. On these days, I always feel like I have started my day off with a “win.” But I feel like good sleep is also an important part of my recovery program, and I want to address sleep, recovery, and relapse prevention.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In 12-step programs, service work refers to volunteer work that members do for one another, for home group meetings or clubhouse, for the recovery community, or to help spread the message of hope to other people still suffering from alcoholism, addiction, or a mental health illness.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Perfectionism - Because of that work ethic, I achieved a lot in my athletic career.  I do not mind saying that I was not a natural athlete, but I achieved success because I worked hard and set high standards for myself at every practice.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog - Perfectionism - You are prone to procrastination You engage in all-or-nothing thinking You feel depressed by unmet goals You experience back, body, or headaches</image:title>
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